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Year 3 Day 188

“Most of us are content to delegate the problem to the courts, as if justice were a matter for professionals or specialists. But to do justice is what God demands of every man; it is the supreme commandment, and one that cannot be fulfilled vicariously.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 91)

These words of Rabbi Heschel’s are speaking to the issue of Civil Rights and they are as true and pertinent today as they were some 61 years ago. We have seen a proliferation of court cases where people seeking to be unjust are using the ‘cover’ of the law, the political bent of the Supreme Court Justices to undo the Civil Rights and Voting Rights laws of the 1960’s. We are witnesses to these “professionals and specialists” using the courts to fulfill their own unreligious and unjust desires, their desire for power and control. It is a great tragedy that our courts have taken away rights from the powerless and the voiceless, from women and LGBTQ+, from the stranger and the poor. Yet, this is the situation we find ourselves in today. Delegating “the problem to the courts” has led America to be unjust, according to “what God demands of every man.”

The courts have become a place where the alliances of minorities have been shattered, Blacks and Jews are no longer aligned to “do justice”. Between the courts and the urgings of people in both minorities, Jews and Blacks find themselves as opponents instead of allies. This is a great tragedy! Black Ministers are calling on President Biden and Israel for a Cease-Fire. Why are they and the protestors not calling on Hamas for a Cease-Fire? We are being assured this is not anti-semitism, yet, just as racism can be sniffed out by the victims of it, so too can anti-semitism be sniffed out by Jews.

We are told in Deuteronomy16:18 to engage in Mishpat Tzedek, righteous justice. This teaching by Moses calls our attention to the two aspects of justice: a law and what is morally right. In fact, according to the Oxford dictionary, both words, righteous and justice, mean doing what is morally right and fair. What was happening at the time Rabbi Heschel spoke these words was anything but what was morally right and fair, hence his railing about the injustice practiced by both the courts and people. What is happening right now is anything but what is morally fair and right, hence our need to stop delegating to the “professionals or specialists” the administration of righteous justice.  I learned from one of my teachers, Rabbi Jonathan Omer-man, to take this personally: be morally right in my words and my deeds, seek a spiritual guide to help me discern what is the righteous and just action to take in this moment, knowing the next moment will be different. Rather than delegate the responsibility of doing justice to the courts, to the “professionals or specialists”, it is to each of us that this ‘command’ is addressed. Every human being is responsible for the administering of justice, as Rev King said: “ Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” These words of Rev King were prophetic then and we are witnesses to the fulfillment of this prophecy in our own time.

While one can debate the situation in Gaza, everyone should be horrified by the devastation. At the same time, which seems to elude the protestors on campus’ around our country, the devastation is the direct result of the attack on Oct. 7th when Hamas broke the Cease-Fire and tortured, raped, murdered and took hostages. The devastation is the direct result of Hamas’ unwillingness to return the hostages and deny the different agreements for a Cease-Fire that have been presented by their allies in Egypt, Qatar, etc! In the news coverage on the left, this fact is left out! It is left out in the calls of the protestors who portray Hamas, a terrorizing force in Israel, in Gaza, who use the people of Gaza as their human shields, who claim it doesn’t matter how many are killed ‘for the cause’, as freedom fighters! They want to exterminate the Jews, kill all zionists, displace Israel from its land, etc. This is what they call Justice? This is what they call morally right and fair?

And the world says nothing except to condemn the Jews! I disagree with Netanyahu and his band of thugs on almost every issue, they have perverted what is in the Bible for their own purposes. They have sought to do the same with the Justice System in Israel as Leonard Leo and the Federalist society have done in the US. And, a two-state solution is the only just and fair way of dealing with the issues in the Middle East, which the world has conveniently forgotten about was the original idea of the UN in their Partition Agreement in 1947! It was the Grand Mufti of Jerusalem who killed that idea, it was the Arab Countries surrounding Israel who went to war in 1948-all of whom had supported Hitler in WWII!

I am, as you may have noticed, enraged by what is happening both in Gaza and in our country. I am saddened by the lack of participation and discussion of what is morally right and fair. I am looking at my own call to “do justice”, my own actions to be just and fair, moral and truthful. It begins within, I continue to put guardrails up to tamp down my unjust impulses, I continue to speak out, loudly and softly, whenever I witness injustice. I am overwrought at what I see happening in our country, how the Supreme Court has become so corrupt that, instead of being an instrument that “proclaims liberty throughout the land and to all its inhabitants therein”, it has become an instrument to deny freedom and liberty to the masses in favor of the few. I cannot stay silent while people “make thin” their personal responsibility to “do justice”. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 187

“Our standards are modest; our sense of injustice tolerable, timid; our moral indignation impermanent; yet human violence is interminable, unbearable, permanent. The conscience builds its confines, is subject to fatigue, longs for comfort. Yet those who are hurt, and He who inhabits eternity, neither sleep nor slumber.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 91)

The people who are impacted by the “human violence” of another, according to Rabbi Heschel, “neither sleep nor slumber”. The impact of prejudice, violence that is physical, mental, spiritual, does not leave its victims, it always weighs on us. This is true for children who are abused as well as adults. This is true for women who are ‘under the thumb’ of their fathers, husbands, etc. This is true for ethnicities that have been scapegoated like Blacks, Hispanics, Jews, Muslims. This is true, also, for the people who care about their neighbors, who abhor injustice whether they are powerless to end this “human violence” or they have the power to stop the perpetuation of it.

The spiritual harm is so great and, as science teaches us, has such far-reaching effects, that it is passed down through the generations. Jews have felt the effects of anti-semitism since Antiquity and the perpetrators have engaged in it throughout the ages-be it the Greeks, Romans, the Church, etc. This epigenetic inheritance has extenuated the personal responsibility of the anti-semites, it makes thin their responsibility for their actions and has become a societal norm! For the Jew, it has made us very sensitive to the least hint of anti-semitism and our reactions range from hiding to fighting, from seeing it everywhere and ignoring it until it is too late. When we stand against it, we are called overly sensitive, aggressive, oppressors, etc. by those who want to eliminate us and/or keep us in our place.

Blacks in America have the same reactions, they are sensitive to the slightest hint of racism, they are acutely aware of being accused of crimes they have not committed, being given longer prison sentences than whites, receiving education that doesn’t always meet the education of whites, etc. They have become accustomed to white people crossing the street when they are walking towards them, they are used to being passed over for jobs and positions, they are susceptible to the gang violence that has come to be ‘normal’ in some neighborhoods and fight for their dignity each and every day. The same is true for Hispanics who are labeled by some as criminals, rapists, etc. in our current political climate.

Each of these ethnic groups along with everyone else who experiences the “human violence” of ‘the man’ are very aware of their need to be hyper alert. Blacks have the experience of the deep South and slavery, Jim Crow and the KKK, and now the MAGA movement. Jews have the experience of slavery in Egypt, being wanderers for almost 1900 years and in our wandering being expelled from every country in the world except for the United States where the Protocols of Zion and Father Coughlin perpetrated anti-semitism, where there were quotas on college enrollment, where people march screaming Jews will not replace us. Just as Blacks re-experience the old wounds of slavery and discrimination every time they are denied their proper due and there is a killing like George Floyd, Jews re-experience the trauma of anti-semitism, the concentration camps, ghettos, and exile of the past whenever there are demonization of Israel, of Jews, when there is a celebration of Hamas and people who want our extermination.

The issue spiritually for everyone, of course, is none of us should be able to “sleep nor slumber” when there is human violence being perpetrated anywhere against anyone. One can argue that Israel’s response is too much and to forget the rape, torture, murder that initiated this response is also an act of “human violence”. To hold the Israeli government totally responsible is to encourage Hamas to continue to terrorize, to give aid and comfort to Iran in their quest to kill the Jews, yet, the people who claim to be victims of “human violence” have no issue with the “human violence” they perpetrate. The demonstrations that are taking place and some of the media coverage conveniently forget how many Cease-Fire proposals Hamas has rejected, how long they have kept hostages which is against International Law, how their crimes against humanity are being whitewashed. Just as when Black people are arrested, abused, even killed for “driving while Black” and the perpetrators ignore it, so too with the Jews when we are threatened with extermination, the perpetrators are celebrated!

For each of us, the issue is deeply personal or should be. We have to stop sleeping well while “human violence” in any form is being perpetrated anywhere. I think of my own crimes and misdemeanors in this realm and, while I have done my T’Shuvah, made my amends, I also know the negativity never leaves the world. I hope and pray my amends and T’Shuvah keep the negativity where it belongs, in the past. I have been the recipient of amends by another(s) and whatever the unresolved feelings were prior, upon being asked for forgiveness, they were lifted from my soul and my inner life. This is the power of T’Shuvah, the call of the amends process-to allow for the past to be relegated to its proper place rather than continually be part of the psyche of the one that is/has been harmed. I have done many amends and I do so again-for those who have been harmed by my actions, knowingly and unknowingly, of spiritual/emotional violence, I am truly sorry. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 186

“Our standards are modest; our sense of injustice tolerable, timid; our moral indignation impermanent; yet human violence is interminable, unbearable, permanent. The conscience builds its confines, is subject to fatigue, longs for comfort. Yet those who are hurt, and He who inhabits eternity, neither sleep nor slumber.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 91)

Rabbi Heschel’s highlighted words above describe the state of affairs for most people. Many of us “build its confines”, meaning we continually put borders and limits on where our conscience takes us. This is how we are able to stay silent in the face of evil, hide our heads when wrongs are being done in ‘our name’ by governments, religions, family members, etc. By building these boundaries, we allow our consciences to be soothed by self-deceptions, we go along with the wrong doing and deceptions of another(s), we abdicate our responsibility to serve and engage in a “higher calling”. Building these boundaries, these “confines” we allow ourselves to be spiritually, morally, and ethically lazy. Be it the treatment of the sick, lame, elderly in Ancient Rome and Greece, the treatment of people in the Dark and Middle Ages, the hatred of Jews for the millennia, the enslavement of Blacks in America, etc, these are the results of building these confines, limiting our moral outrage, caring just for our own well-being.

Rabbi Heschel gives us a ‘reason’ for building these “confines”; “fatigue, longs for comfort”. Fatigue comes from the Latin meaning “tire out”. One of the English definitions is “a lessening in one's response to or enthusiasm for something, typically as a result of overexposure to it.” Our consciences have been exposed to the evils of slavery, oppression, anti-semitism, fear of ‘the other’, for so long that we seem to be unable to respond to them with anything but indifference. Looking at the phenomena of Trump’s popularity, hating the stranger proclaiming the goodness of terrorists and rapists in Gaza, the ho-hum towards Putin’s rape of Ukraine, harkens back to earlier eras, we still haven’t learned how to invigorate our consciences and stay true to our inner values.

Comfort comes from the Latin meaning “strengthen”, in English we use “the easing or alleviation of a person's feelings of grief or distress.” Rabbi Heschel’s teaching above is a warning and a call to us to not “strengthen” our inability to respond to the indifference our consciences have adopted, to not “alleviate” our bad conscience over the distress of another person/group nor “ease” our moral outrage at lies, deceptions, slavery, unkindness, etc. Yet, we continue to do this, we seem, historically and in real time, to be unable to express the moral outrage of the Prophets. Our conscience is in turmoil and we put different salves, ointments, etc to alleviate the turmoil because we are afraid to face the truth and act accordingly. We are unable to deal with the nuances and subtleties of living a life of “moral grandeur and spiritual audacity” as Rabbi Heschel said in a telegram to President Kennedy in 1963.

While some say that prophecy doesn’t happen anymore, I disagree. We have seen prophets in our time, like Rabbi Heschel, Rev King, George Orwell, and so many others. We have the words and deeds of the prophets of antiquity we can study and learn from. We have, within us, the fire of the prophets and we are called “descendants of the prophets”. Jesus’ words were his interpretation of the prophets words, using the same themes in his sermons. Western Morality comes from the Bible and the prophets proclaiming their value to those in power. Yet, we seem to easily forget, to “limit” our consciences, to allow them to “tire out” and seek to “strengthen” our indifference rather than claim our inheritance of “fire in the belly” from the prophets of old.

There seem to be so many causes in the world today and there is only one cause we need to be concerned with: our ways of dealing with our conscience. We, the people, have to take up the mantle of the prophets, we have to take up the words of the Bible, we have to take up the call of Jesus, Moses, Mohammed, Buddha, etc and take the next right action rather than the most expedient one. We have to imbue the courage of the prophets to do the bidding of our souls, our spirits rather than soothe our conscience seeking ‘comfort”. We are being called today, as we are every day, to stand for what is right and good, to take actions to ensure that everyone is treated with dignity and value, every person is seen as a divine need. We are commanded to free/ransom the captive, this applies to our selves, our consciences as well as to another human being. As we end our celebration of leaving the physical slavery of Egypt, we embark on the journey of leaving the spiritual slavery of a lazy conscience. This is what counting the Omer means this year.

My recovery is based in, and I continue to find, the ways I am in the spiritual slavery of a lazy conscience. In these years of recovery, I have kept the words and deeds of the prophets, Rabbi Heschel, the early Hasidim, my father and grandfathers as my north star. When I don’t, I am in danger of losing my moral compass. I am loud and the “fire in my belly” burns hot and explosive, something that is not accepted in polite society and some people recoil from. This saddens me and, in all these years, I try to temper it when appropriate and I don’t always succeed. I am afraid of indifference because, knowing my own history, I am acutely aware of how easy it is to fall into a lazy conscience and bad actions, comforting myself with mendacity and going along with negativity and deception. I cannot do this- I cannot go backwards. I would rather suffer the arrows of those who use my vulnerabilities against me than not heed the fire within. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 185

“Our standards are modest; our sense of injustice tolerable, timid; our moral indignation impermanent; yet human violence is interminable, unbearable, permanent. The conscience builds its confines, is subject to fatigue, longs for comfort. Yet those who are hurt, and He who inhabits eternity, neither sleep nor slumber.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 91)

The issue Rabbi Heschel raises about “human violence” strikes at the heart of our existence, for me. How do we define “human violence” is important because many people mis-define it, in my opinion. “Human violence” happens whenever and wherever we categorize another human being as “the other”. Whenever we ignore the plight of those who are suffering, we are committing “human violence”. Whenever we fail to recognize the divine image of another human being, we are committing “human violence”. When we need to make someone else bad so we can be good, ie comparison, we commit “human violence”. When we need to rule over ‘those people’ we commit “human violence”. In other words, all of us are guilty of committing it.

The words Rabbi Heschel uses to describe our consistent engagement in “human violence” are soul-shattering, hopefully. “Interminable” means “without end”, “unbearable” means “not able to be endured or tolerated”, and “permanent” means “lasting indefinitely”. Since the days of Cain and Abel we have been confronted with “human violence” and we continue to engage in it even though it harms our souls, it harms the souls and bodies of another(s), and ew have seen how it ravages our humanity. It seems to be enjoyed by some people so much they are surprised when they are held to account for their violence towards another(s), the MAGA crowd is bewildered by the fact they are being held accountable for Jan. 6th when they believe their “human violence” was a just and good cause-the end of democracy! We, the people, have to come to terms with our inner life, with our need to compare and compete to such an extreme that “human violence” is the norm and is celebrated.

Putin, Sinwar, G’vir, Netanyahu, Orban, MBS, the Ayatollah, are but the faces of physical “human violence” we read about and hear about today. What they all have in common is their ‘people’ have gone along with the physical violence they have perpetrated. In the case of Netanyahu and G’vir, as well as with Sinwar, the Israelis and Palestinians in the ‘streets’ do not all agree with their tactics, Israelis are demonstrating and arguing with their government to end senseless violence, the people of Gaza who disagree with Hamas and Sinwar are still too afraid, know the depth of the “human violence” Hamas and Sinwar engage in, using human shields, hospitals, Mosques to hide in and store weapons in. Hamas decided to end the Cease-Fire on Oct. 7th and are not willing to admit their crimes while some in the world condemn Israel for its retaliation, which can be argued is devastating. When Putin condemns Israel for defending itself when he invaded a sovereign country, Ukraine, we see the effects of the permanence of “human violence”, we witness the cover-up, clean-up of the “interminable” and “permanent” nature of it.

The student demonstrators on College Campus’ decry what is happening in Gaza right now, and it is devastating. They also call for “from the river to the sea” promoting the extermination of Jews, the end of the State of Israel and are unaware of how they claim “human violence” is “unbearable” and at the same time promote it - as long as it is against “the Jews”. Why is “human violence” bearable when it is against the Jews, as we have seen throughout history. Just as in the early days and throughout the Second World War, people don’t want to go to war to save the Jews, so too today-the attack on the Israeli people who reached out an olive branch, who helped the people of Gaza navigate check points and helped them get to hospitals, gave them work in their homes and their fields, were the ones who were killed, tortured, raped, taken captive! The student demonstrators seem fine with this situation-only Israel should stop the fighting- not Hamas. This is how subtle and “interminable” “human violence” was, is and always will be until we put an end to it.

The only way to end the physical “human violence” is to heal the soul sickness that causes it. We live in times where spiritual illness is rampant, our solutions for it have been alcohol, drugs, work, blame, shame, violence-just as the Bible stories about Cain & Able, Adam & Eve in the garden, Pharaoh in Egypt, and so many more stories of “human violence” found in the pages of the Bible-not to validate this way of being, rather to decry it, to inform us as to the causes and the truth that “sin couches at our door and we can master it”. Isn’t it time to “turn our swords into plowshares”? Isn’t it time for “men learn war no more”? We have the power to do this, we have the technology, we need, as Maimonidies teaches, a physician of the soul to help us heal our spiritual maladies and “grow along spiritual lines”. We need a program of spiritual recovery and we need to engage in it today!

I have committed “human violence” in my recovery and I am remorseful for these acts. While my way of being is bombastic and loud, I am sensitive to the lies people tell themselves, I also have engaged and indulged in missing the humanity of people, missing the need and cry of people at times and for this I make my amends and do better each day. I also have helped many people end their inner violence towards themselves, doing so lessens the “human violence” we commit towards another(s). I continue each day to let go of the hurts and the arrows I have experienced, I continue each day to appreciate the joy of connection, the lessening of inner violence. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 184

“Our standards are modest; our sense of injustice tolerable, timid; our moral indignation impermanent; yet human violence is interminable, unbearable, permanent. The conscience builds its confines, is subject to fatigue, longs for comfort. Yet those who are hurt, and He who inhabits eternity, neither sleep nor slumber.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 91)

This is the third way Rabbi Heschel speaks about how we were/are “dealing with our bad conscience”. Whether it is about Black people, Brown people, Asian people, Jews, Muslims, etc; we seem to be able to tolerate the injustice that is perpetrated upon someone else with the idea that progress is being made, why are they so impatient, etc. The same actions which if done to us would make us angry and cause revolt, we soothe our conscience by saying “why are they so angry”. Rabbi Heschel is calling us out because “our standards are modest”, “our sense of injustice tolerable, timid; our moral indignation impermanent;”

Living into his words above in the first sentence must cause us pain, guilt and personal recrimination, I believe. I know they do for me. How can I pray, be a person of faith, call myself human and have modest standards? The Bible and every other spiritual text demands we raise ourselves up to the standards of spiritual health, spiritual decency. They demand we “proclaim freedom throughout the land and to all its inhabitants therein”(Lev. 25:10), that we stand up for one another, we ransom the captive, etc. Yet, in the 61 years since the Conference on Race and Religion where these words were spoken, we seem to have gone backwards, we have retreated to more modest “standards”, the voting rights bill has been gutted, the treatment of Black and Brown people has gotten worse, the alliances of minorities in this country has fallen apart, and we get angry with one another, rather than being angry at injustice!

When “driving while Black” can still get an innocent person murdered by police, when walking down a street in a neighborhood where one doesn’t ‘seem to belong’ can get one beaten, when police are not prosecuted for their crimes, when a former President is helped by the Supreme Court and lower Courts to evade responsibility and justice, we are witnessing “our sense of injustice” being tolerable and, even, turned upside down. What makes these Justices, these keepers of our Constitution so timid? I believe it is their desire to serve their politics rather than justice, their desire to proclaim their fidelity to ‘christian justice’ rather than to the justice that Christ speaks of nor the justice that the Bible speaks about. Rather than being people who do not take bribes nor recognize one person over another nor have one law for the rich and one for the poor as the Bible instructs us; these Justices have made it their raison d’être to do the opposite. Thomas and Alito take bribes, Kavanaugh and Gorsuch follow a christianity that would be unrecognizable to Christ.

We hear much from the charlatans about their “moral indignation” that is focused on freedom for all, they are against voting rights, welcoming the stranger, feeding the poor, upholding the Constitution when it is inconvenient for them, etc. Their “moral indignation” is focused on anyone and anything that may impugn on their power grab, their wealth, their sense of injustice towards white people.

We find the “moral indignation” of some minorities to be “impermanent” as well. The protests against Israel, the calling for an immediate cease-fire make no mention of the atrocities committed by Hamas on Oct. 7, 2023, no mention of the illegal taking and keeping of hostages by Hamas and the fact that they have not let the Red Cross visit any of the hostages. They forget to mention there was a cease-fire in effect on Oct. 6th, 2023 and it was broken by Hamas! They seem incapable of having any “moral indignation” towards Hamas and their allies who murdered, raped and killed so many Israelis-‘oh yeah, that’s Jewish Blood and they deserve it’ seems to be their attitude. The deaths in Gaza of innocents is horrific-no one is denying it-, Bibi and his right-wing government have done a terrible job in prosecuting this war, and rockets are still being fired into Israel, Hamas does not want a cease-fire nor were they willing/able to provide 45 living hostages and keep moving the line on a deal. When the perpetrators of evil are being celebrated as freedom fighters, when terrorists are being hailed as heroes, we witness “moral indignation” impermanence!

I am drawn to these words because I have fought against my own issues with allowing injustice to be tolerable, moral indignation to be impermanent, being timid in the face of lies and deceit. I have not been able to stand it in the world, in another(s), and, most of all, within myself. I have spent my life railing about it and, in my younger years when I felt powerless and a victim, I turned to alcohol and crime and joined the injustice. My recovery has been about yelling from the rooftops against injustice, prejudice, racism, religious intolerance. I have been at at odds with the people who donated to the organization I was Rabbi and CEO of, I have been at odds with the people we were helping, I have been at odds with colleagues because I am hypersensitive to injustice. There are times when this hypersensitivity has caused me to become volcanic and explosive, which doesn’t always make me popular nor heard. My moral compass is as exacting for myself as it is for another(s), I learned this from my father, z”l. I am sorry to the people who have felt the wrath of my volcanic explosions because of my moral indignation and have been overwhelmed by it-I am not sorry for having a heightened sense of moral outrage. My moral compass has given me the joy, the gift, and the burden of speaking out and I am grateful, even though it has gotten me into trouble at times. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 183

Another way of dealing with a bad conscience is to keep the Negro out of sight. The Word proclaims: Love thy Neighbor! So we make it impossible for him to be a neighbor.”(Insecurity of Freedom pg. 90)

Rabbi Heschel continues to give us ‘ways’ of dealing with a bad conscience. What is so remarkable is that he assumes people have bad consciences! As we have seen throughout history up to today, many people are immune to their bad consciences because they spend little, if any, time delving into their inner life. Today’s quote reminds us of “out of sight, out of mind”.

While Rabbi Heschel is addressing the issue of racism against Black people in 1963, not much has changed nor were Black people the only ones who were kept “out of sight” in the history of the United States. Today it is the homeless we are keeping away from the ‘good neighborhoods’, passing laws that allow law enforcement to move them off the streets even if they don’t want to be moved. We still restrict the people who are our neighbors based on economics and housing prices. Throughout our history, we have segregated the Irish, the Italians, the Chinese, the Koreans, the Jews, anyone who is not ‘white like us’. It is a stain on America and a way of ‘solving’ the problem of our “bad conscience.”

In the Bible, “Love thy Neighbor” is in the context of one way to be holy. It is not just the neighbor next door or two doors down, it is everyone who inhabits the neighborhood, everyone who dwells in the city, county, state, country. All of us human beings are neighbors, all of us our related as we say “Our parent, our sovereign” in the Avinu Malkeynu prayer. Yet, we are constantly and consistently ignoring this truth, we are constantly and consistently seeking to “keep those people out” of our neighborhoods, our seats of power, our churches, Temples, Mosques, restaurants, etc. “No Irish need apply”, “No Jews allowed”, “Colored water fountain”, are all stains on our history, ways the WASPS and others dealt with their “bad consciences”. Today, it is the Jew, the Arab, the Muslim, the Hispanic, who are being isolated again, who are being kept out of college campus’, neighborhoods, who are being ghettoized because of not being wanted in ‘our neighborhood’. This is being done by ‘god-fearing’ people-imagine if they were pagans!

We are witnessing the effects of “out of sight, out of mind” as well as the effects of the lies we tell ourselves and. another(s) about “those people”. Be it the MAGA movement, the Christian Nationalists, the White Supremacists, the Progressives who are as intractable as the far-right conservatives, they continue to use a scapegoat to deal with their “bad conscience”. They are manipulated by the liars and the charlatans, the money and the power of outside groups who have an agenda-authoritarianism. The call of the students on campus’ around the country for a Cease-Fire in Gaza, their hailing of Hamas as “freedom fighters”, their portrayal of Israel as oppressors when Hamas could have built Gaza into something terrific and a destination like the French or Italian Riveras, is frightening. The fact that these protests began the day after the Oct. 7th massacre of over 1200 Israelis, the taking of over 240 Hostages, seems a little fishy to many of us. Yet, they wrap themselves in the flag of Hamas and extol authoritarianism, support the extermination of Israel as a country and Jews as a people. This is how they deal with their “bad conscience”, kill the ones we don’t like, do the bidding of their Iranian influencers who would never put up with these types of protests. How many of these passionate protestors want to live under Sharia law? We witness the lies of the far-right as they seem to be supporting Israel when, in truth, they also hate the Jews, remember these are the people who chanted “Jews will not replace us”!

The only real way of “dealing with a bad conscience”, as I ponder Rabbi Heschel’s words, is to invite everyone into our tent. The Passover meal which was eaten on Monday and Tuesday evenings, was to be shared with neighbors if our family could not eat it themselves. There was no ‘leftovers’ allowed. In the Haggadah, we invite the hungry and the needy into our homes to share in the meal and the liberation of the soul that the Exodus from Egypt represents. We have to invite the different parts of our inner life to engage with one another to wrestle out the differences between what we know to be true and right-“love your neighbor as you love yourself”, and what we know is wrong-“keep the_____ out of sight”. We have to deal with our inner conflicts, hear the call of our soul that gives us a “bad conscience”, hear the call of the prophets whose only job was to give a “bad conscience” to the Priests, the royalty, the wealthy as well as the rest of the people. We have to deal with our desire to be deceived and need to deceive another(s). All of this is the inner spiritual work that we are called to by every Holy day in every spiritual tradition as well as by the daily prayers and practices of every spiritual discipline.

I am guilty of dealing with my “bad conscience” at times with ‘out of sight, out of mind’. This year, I am being liberated from this way of being-I retreated after being wounded and feeling abandoned and this is wrong on my part. I made a mistake that profoundly impacted many people and while I disagree with the decisions of the people in power, I am wrong in my retreat from everyone. I am remedying this. I am seeing the choices made by people as them doing what they thought was best with their own “bad consciences” playing a role in their decisions. I, however, cannot blame them nor anyone for my decision to retreat. I am back, I am being more of who I truly am. This is my response to being brought out of Egypt this year. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 182

“There are several ways of dealing with our bad conscience. (1) We can extenuate our responsibility…Modern thought has a tendency to extenuate personal responsibility.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 89)

Rabbi Heschel, in speaking and writing about the scourge of racism in 1963, assumes that most of us have a “bad conscience”. I believe him to be right and I also believe this first of the “ways of dealing with our bad conscience” is a major reason for our continuing to treat anyone of a different skin color, different ethnicity, different religion so terribly wrong in gleeful self-righteousness.

The word “extenuate” comes from the Latin meaning “make thin”. We “make thin” our personal responsibility for the ways we treat people who are different politically, ethnically, etc. Society falls back on it’s ‘norms’ and people, here Rabbi Heschel is speaking of white people, do everything they can to ‘thin’ out their responsibility by blaming the victims, which we do often. We can ‘thin’ out our personal responsibility by claiming it isn’t us doing this, it is the government, it is ‘those other’ people. We ‘thin’ out our personal responsibility by pointing to how ‘those people’ haven’t done anything to help themselves. We can ‘thin’ out personal responsibility through bastardizing the Bible and other holy texts. There are a myriad of ways we ‘thin’ out personal responsibility which allows us to be angry when those who have been mistreated rise up and demand to be treated as equals. “Who do they think they are” is a common refrain heard from the ruling class.

We see how people “make thin” their personal responsibility in our politics. The bowing down to leaders who have shredded the norms, declare they will be dictators, stand against progress, block ‘those’ people from having power is such an example. The ways in which we excuse the crimes and misdemeanors of the candidates and office holders we ‘like’ is another such example. Joining in the MAGA movement and believing Trump is “sent by Jesus” is such an example. The leaders of the Republican Party who endorse him after calling him out for his role in the Jan. 6th attack on democracy and the Capital are examples of people who “make thin” their personal responsibility for the future, for the health, of democracy and the U.S. Constitution. We are in a precarious situation in our country and in the world. Our democratic values have been “make thin” because we allow people of bad faith, bad actors to have the power to organize and spread malicious gossip, lies and appeal to the basest parts of a human being-our fears of being less than someone else.

Our religious institutions have, in many cases, served to “extenuate personal responsibility” as well. Rabbi Heschel is speaking about the plight of Black people, where many clergy found a myriad of ‘reasons’ to “make thin” their personal responsibility as Dr. King outlined in his “Letter from the Birmingham Jail” some 61 years ago. Religious leaders continue to give aid and comfort to our “tendency to extenuate personal responsibility”. We are witnesses to the ‘glory’ heaped on Trump and other people who demean those who are not ‘white like me’, who believe women should be treated as second-class citizens, who treat anyone who is not a ‘good white christian’ as third+-class citizens. Some clergy continue to call for restraint when those of us who are not ‘good white christians’ demand a seat at the table. These clergy have “made thin” their personal responsibility in the prejudice, racism, anti-semitism, Islamaphobia that is rampant in our country and around the globe today.

The phenomena of anti-semitism is on the rise today in America. Almost 24% of Americans endorse anti-semitic tropes. 42% of Americans have a family member or friends who dislike Jews! The abandonment of Jews by people of color, by young people is rising at alarming rates and all of these people “extenuate personal responsibility” by blaming Israel and Jews for their hatred. They have extolled known terrorists, Hamas, as freedom fighters, they are being controlled by Iranian and other Arab countries who fund these groups and spread their lies. We can debate the Israeli government’s attitude and treatment of Palestinians and there is truth on both sides of these arguments and to declare “Jews will not replace us” and “from the river to the sea” as well as forgetting about the hostages still in Hamas’ control without ever being visited by the Red Cross is a not-so-subtle way to “extenuate personal responsibility”.

This teaching of Rabbi Heschel cuts to the core of my denial of personal responsibility, my defending my actions of withdrawal from people. I am guilty of not reaching out when I could have, waiting for another(s) to reach out to me especially since my exile from my former community. What has become crystal clear to me is that the community I belonged to, helped to build is not a ‘former’ community-it is alive and the people in it are living vibrant lives. I took the exile by some to mean the exile by all and, by doing this, I “made thin” my responsibility to partake with the people I love, people I have been connected to for years. This is how subtle Rabbi Heschel’s teaching is. I love it because, as is the case for me, Rabbi Heschel makes me look inside of myself, to take my part in any and every situation I find myself in. I do not have the platform I used to have, I have not been embraced by the new community I am living in as much or as outwardly as I would want AND I still cannot “extenuate” my “personal responsibility”, I still have to speak out, reach out, and use the platforms available to me to help another human being, to relieve the suffering of another. I commit to do this more, I commit to reach out and not be dismayed or deterred by indifference any more. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 181

“There is a form of oppression which is more painful and more scathing than physical injury or economic privation. It is public humiliation. (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 88)

Looking at our world and pondering these words of Rabbi Heschel in today’s context of Jews celebrating the exodus from Egypt, Jews being tormented on College Campus’, Jews being accused of ‘genocide’, Jews being regulated to being oppressors by their former allies in moving the world to a more just and kind place is mind-boggling.

In the Haggadah, which we read from last night, we are “obligated to see oneself as if one had been taken out from Egypt”. It is an obligation to be empathetic, as my teacher and friend, Hazzan Danny Maseng said last evening. Also in the Haggadah, we are told to welcome the stranger, bring everyone who is hungry and everyone who is in need to hear the story of the exodus from Egypt in order to give them hope, to let them know that slavery will not last and we are their ally in seeking liberation and freedom.

We Jews are not perfect! Israel is not a perfect State-full stop! Yet, the “public humiliation” that both Israel and Jews are receiving right now is totally out of proportion for what is happening on the ground. Iran and other Arab countries have funded and staffed these ‘students’ and Black preachers and people are identifying with Hamas and Iran! Just as the Republicans are identifying with Putin, these Hamas lovers would not enjoy being under Shariah law, they would not love being told who to marry, what gender they have to be, how they have to follow the words of Ayatollah, wear head coverings, women being second-class citizens, etc.

Yet, they persist in “public humiliation” towards Jews! As in in the past, these ‘freedom supporters’ have conflated Jews with oppressors, Jews as ‘the enemy’, Jews as the cause of all evil in the world, etc and are engaged in a concerted campaign of “public humiliation”. The same people Jews have supported, marched with, fought alongside of for human rights, civil rights, in the courts, in the streets, are now seeing Jews as the enemy! They have adopted the lies of the Iranians, the tactics of Hamas, and call themselves allies in fighting for freedom. They can do this from their cushy homes in Qatar, Tehran, Morningside Heights, while Jews respond to every calamity that happens around the globe, while Jews donate money, time, and actions to help those who are oppressed more often than most. It is in our Haggadah, it is in the Bible, it is an obligation even the most secular Jews accept.

This form of oppression is “more painful and more scathing” precisely because it is so personal. Just as Orban in Hungary, Putin in Russia, Trump in America, they and their followers turn on the people who have helped them so they can scapegoat them for their own benefit. The experience of Black Ministers supporting the anti-semitism of Iranian backed groups, the experience of Black Ministers supporting Hamas’ terrorism and not calling for the release of the Hostages nor even mentioning them is like a knife in the back. The experience of “Jews will not replace us”, the calling of President Biden’s support for the State of Israel as being a partner in Genocide is ridiculous, deceptive as well as wrong and anti-semitic. This idea of being “ant-zionist” and not “anti-semitic” is a false argument, a way of validating their “public humiliation” of Jews and a Jewish State. When former allies support people and join in their chants of “from the river to the sea…” they are not calling out Israel for their errors, of which there are many, they are calling for the extermination of the Jewish people and the end of Israel as a nation! This is also “public humiliation”, echoing the call of the Grand Mufti of Jerusalem in 1948, echoing the call of Nazi Germany, by people who have suffered oppression because of the color of their skin, people who have experienced slavery in their past!

Jews and Israel have engaged in “public humiliation” also-none of us are perfect! No one has clean hands here, no one is pure here. I am as upset with the Rabbis who preach hatred towards Arabs as I am with the Arabs, the Blacks, the Hispanics, the Whites, etc who preach hatred towards Jews. It is with extreme sadness  realizing how far we have fallen since the Exodus from Egypt. Instead of seeing ourselves as free people with all the responsibilities and obligations freedom calls for, we have used freedom as a privilege and a means of separation rather than a coming together of people, we have used our position of power to engage in “public humiliation” of those we see as ‘enemies’. We have betrayed our friends and allies, we have abused the trust we have been given by people and we all suffer spiritually from this way of being.

I have engaged in “public humiliation” at times in my life, I have also been the recipient of same! I love this teaching because it is easy to ignore, it is so easy for me to want to ‘get even’ and, as the Haggadah and the Bible teach me, I have to love my neighbor as myself, I have to see the Image of God even in the people who hate me, I have to protect myself and not perpetrate the same tactics as my enemy for fear of being like her/him. It is hard at times, I am not perfect, I strive each day to have a little more empathy and divine pathos for people. I have come to accept the sadness of seeing another be stuck in their own particular Egypt and when I am stuck, I ask for help to be liberated and redeemed. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 180

“It is time for the white man to strive for self-emancipation, to set himself free of bigotry, to stop being a slave to wholesale contempt, a passive recipient of slander” (Insecurity of Freedom pg 87-88)

Tonight, Jews across the world will celebrate the Exodus from Egypt by retelling the story of liberation from Pharaoh, the liberation from their own inner slaveries, the crossing of the Red Sea. Yet, as Rabbi Heschel says earlier in his talk on Race and Religion, “Pharaoh is not ready to capitulate”.

In our self-deception, too many of us believe we are already free, we are already whole and we need to hold onto the past tightly. In doing this, we continue to give power to the Pharaoh, both within us and outside of us. Rather than heeding Rabbi Heschel’s words above, the “white man” has ensconced himself in “bigotry”, he relishes his “being a slave to wholesale contempt”, and imbues “slander” with an insatiable appetite. And, in order to be ‘like the man’, many other races have joined in their own “bigotry”, “wholesale contempt” and “slander”! It is sad, it is devastating, it is blasphemy.

Just as Easter and Ramadan are holy days of liberation of the spirit in the here and now, so too is Passover holy days of spiritual liberation, liberation from the slavery of ‘stinking thinking’, liberation from the slavery of a sick soul, liberation from the slavery of bad actions. We are to invite in the poor and the hungry so they can eat, we are to invite in the needy so they can join in the liberation, we are to “obligated to see ourselves as if we too had been brought out of Egypt”. Yet, we keep believing we have already been redeemed, not realizing redemption is a daily exercise, the Pharaoh within us is “not ready to capitulate”.

While many people defend their “bigotry”, give ‘rational’ reasons for their “wholesale contempt”, and relish in being “a passive recipient of slander”, the truth is there is not defense, no ‘rational’ reasons, nothing to relish in our behaviors. These ways of being are the antithesis of what it means to celebrate Passover, Easter, Ramadan, etc. We have become so enslaved to the past, we have become so enamored with our lies, we are unable to see the “forest for the trees”. We are so involved in minutia, many of us are blind to the call to help the poor, welcome the hungry, leave Egypt with the help of people who are ‘not like us’ and have so much to teach us, so much love to give to us, so in need of the love we can/should be giving to them.

The inability to “set himself free of bigotry…” unfolds before us daily. Whether it is Bibi or Trump, Putin or Orban, Hamas or Iran, as well as all of their proxies and adherents, we are bombarded with the “slander” they spew, we are ensconced in the “wholesale contempt” for them and their followers, and our “bigotry” towards them seems holy and right. The pro-Hamas protestors who use the Palestinian people’s plight as their shield for hatred of Jews and their goal of destroying Israel, are seen as righteous in their “slander”, “wholesale contempt” and “bigotry” towards the Jewish people and anyone who supports Israel’s right to exist. The right-wing religious zealots in Israel and around the globe who believe killing a Palestinian is a good thing, ordained by god, are unembarrassed by their “bigotry”, “wholesale contempt” and “slander”. The Republicans who parrot Putin’s lies and disinformation with such vitriol and fervor, Fox News, et al, who make shit up just to deify Trump and enslave anyone not like them, ie white, rich, privileged, all are slaves to their “bigotry”, “wholesale contempt” and “slander”. While this alone is horrific, the real tragedy is how many people they infect, how many people have become mesmerized by their “bigotry” etc. They have, through their “wholesale contempt” for the people they reach, engaged in “slander” and deceit to line their pockets and seek to destroy democracy, bastardize Biblical teachings, and set themselves up as Pharaoh.

Tonight we will gather to read the Haggadah, the story of liberation. We will sing the songs, say the prayers and, most importantly, tell the stories of our own liberation from slavery-both in prior years and the slavery we are leaving tonight, this year. It is imperative for all of us, even those who are “wise, knowledgable” to tell the story of liberation so we can defeat our own inner Pharaoh. We know the parts of us that want to give into “bigotry”, “wholesale contempt”, and “slander” and we also know the Moses within us that wants to and is capable of redeeming us from these slaveries. We are also aware that we have to “lift up our eyes and see” the miracle of the full moon, the miracle of the sun rising, the miracle of liberation, and all the other miracles we experience daily and no longer be oblivious to them. We are also aware of Dayenu, enough-we have enough to give to another in need, we have enough spiritual wellness to let go of our “bigotry” because we are aware of our need for one another, we have enough love to share, enough time to spare to help another, enough clarity to see everyone as our brothers and sisters, part of our human race. This, I believe, is the goal of Passover, this is the goal of Rabbi Heschel’s words above.

I know the difficulty of getting our inner and outer Pharaoh to capitulate. I have been engaged in this work for the past 35+ years and Pharaoh still subtly creeps into my mind daily-hence my need for a spiritual program. I have rooted him/her out mostly and an abundance of time-yet I need to apologize to those who have been impacted when I haven’t been able to. To those who think I have been their Pharaoh, I am sorry. To the people who still feel “wholesale contempt” for me, I am sorry and forgive you. I am leaving the Egypts above a lot more this year and I am grateful to all of you who have helped me see the nuances of life better. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 179

“It is time for the white man to strive for self-emancipation, to set himself free of bigotry, to stop being a slave to wholesale contempt, a passive recipient of slander” (Insecurity of Freedom pg 87-88)

We begin the celebration of liberation from Egypt tomorrow evening. The promises God makes to us in Exodus Chapter 6 have yet to be fulfilled. Each year, we remember we were slaves in Egypt and the slavery was not just being under the thumb of the Egyptians, it was also our inner slaveries which demeaned our humanity. The emancipation from Egypt, much like the Emancipation Proclamation in America dealt only with the burdens put upon us from ‘outsiders’, not the inner slaveries of our minds and emotions. This was a promise that God made to us by saying: “I will rid you of their slaveries, I will redeem you…” We, unfortunately, have not accepted this promise, we have not allowed ourselves to be rid of these inner slaveries, we have rejected being redeemed!

Rabbi Heschel’s words from 1963 are as poignant today as they were then. Immersing myself in them, especially on the eve of Passover, causes me to ask myself: how can I “strive for self-emancipation” a little more this year, how can I set myself a little freer this year? The answer lies, I believe, in the words above. In the Haggadah, the book used for the Passover celebration, we are told “in every generation, we are to see ourselves as if we too had been brought out of Egypt.” Engaging in this direction, gratitude for being brought out of Egypt is usually the first experience. I would challenge this, however, if we are to “strive for self-emancipation, we first have to name the slaveries we are still caught up in. We have to look inside of ourselves and name the narrow places we still dwell in, both in our hearts and our minds. We have to commit to “get a new pair of glasses” so our vision is fresh and we see with 20/20 ‘eyesight’ how our inner life is still caught up in Egypt, how we have refused, been unable to allow ourselves to be redeemed by a power greater than ourselves, by our communities, by our connection to the spirit of the universe.

Emancipation is liberation, not freedom. Strive is not achieving, it is the process of “making great efforts to achieve” and “fighting vigorously” to achieve. Our problem today, as it was in 1963, as it has been throughout the millennia, is we are not “fighting vigorously” nor “making great efforts” to liberate ourselves from the narrow places of seeking power, prestige, wealth, of our inner slaveries and our self-deceptions, of our buying into the deceptions of another(s) and the false belief we are free to do as we choose. Liberation is a “release” from the prisons we are in, it is a “setting free” of the bonds and chains that tie us to old ideas, to seeing the world through the lens of fear and despair. We are not free when we leave Egypt, according to many commentaries on the Bible. All of us did not leave Egypt when we had the opportunity, according to one of the many ways of reading the Bible, the call of Moses to Pharaoh: “Let My people go” was not totally fulfilled at the time nor has it been fulfilled up to today. The “white man” seems to incapable of striving for “self-emancipation” and, unfortunately, most other people seem to be falling short in this exercise as well.

As part of the daily prayer service each day, we recite a passage reminding ourselves that the fringes we wear or don’t wear are to remind us of being liberated from Egypt as a people, being emancipated from the harsh labors of building pyramids, of being under fed, of being seem as ‘the other’, of being ridiculed and debased for our skin color, our religious beliefs, our ethnicity, etc. Yet, so many Jews just read these words and don’t reflect on the “self-emancipation” they and we need! At the Passover Seder, we go through the Haggadah and give great commentaries and new ideas on different passages, we just don’t seem to be able to spend time talking about the “self-emancipation” we need this year, the narrow places that are so constricting we feel the urgency, finally, to leave them. Speaking of them gives voice to our struggles, it gives people the opportunity to seek help in their “fighting vigorously” to get out of these boxes we find ourselves in. Watching Alex Edelman’s “Just for Us” comedy special on Max is a treat and a lesson. As the Haggadah says, “in every generation they rise up to destroy us”, and while this is about the Jewish people, it also can be taken as a call to our inner life. Each year, in every generation, there are people on both the far right and the far left, who call for the destruction of the Jews, blaming us for the ills of society. Yet, each year, as I Immerse myself in Rabbi Heschel’s words above, we have to be aware of the inner slaveries, the inner prejudices that seek to destroy our spirits, our connections, our passion and purpose.

I have struggled for “self-emancipation” all my life. For 20+ years, I was unable to realize how deeply ensconced I was in my own inner slaveries of ego, less than, fighting ghosts, digging myself deeper and deeper into a spiritual hole that my had my actions go against everything I believed in. Then I was liberated when I was arrested in 1986! How strange this sounds and how true it is. Each year at Passover, I commit to leave a slavery-usually the same one or one similar to the first one-fear of being rejected, being seen as irrelevant. I have named this slavery as anger, impatience, etc; yet Rabbi Heschel’s words above have given me a new light to see inside myself. I commit to leave this narrow place because it is something I have no control over, I have been and will be rejected and I am still standing. I have been seen as and called irrelevant by people I trusted and served and I am still writing and contributing. I have allowed myself to be dependent on another’s opinion for too long. This is the liberation I seek this year. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 178

“Prayer and prejudice cannot dwell in the same heart. Worship without compassion is worse than self-deception; it is an abomination.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 87)

These two sentences have not found a home in most people’s hearts and minds, it seems. Too often people go to their Temples, Mosques, Churches to pray for their victory over people of a different faith, people of a different ethnicity, color, etc . Too often we hear the call of prejudice from the pulpits, from the mouths of clergy in the most subtle of ways. Too often we use prayer to ‘get ours’ rather than investigate and root out our prejudices and self-deceptions.

Witnessing the ways in which ‘good christian folk’ are expressing their disdain and trying to tear down the justice system in this country, especially with the juror intimidation and lies regarding the trial of Donald Trump should be causing great alarm in all of us. Praying for his acquittal while hating ‘the libs’ is exactly what Rabbi Heschel is speaking to. When this occurs, it is not even a prayer in the Jewish tradition, it is called a worthless prayer. Yet, we are watching the bastardization of prayer in our midst and have been for so long. The KKK, white supremacists, Nation of Islam, Radical Islam, Far right Jews, the Greeks, Romans, etc have used prayer to defeat their enemies, to validate their prejudices, believing if their side wins, then God is on their side! Bob Dylan wrote a song called “With God on Our Side” and in it he depicts the lies people tell that God is only on the side of the winners, while the Bible says God is God of all people and cares for the widow, the stranger, the orphan and the poor. The Bible teaches us to give voice to voiceless, power to the powerless, the prophets rail against this type of thinking.

In Isaiah we learn: “Why bring many sacrifices to me? Why are you trampling My courts? Bring no more vain offerings…I cannot stand iniquity along with solemnity”(Isaiah 1: 11-14). Yet, we continue to not heed these words of the prophet, this call of God. We seem to be immersed in such self-deception that we believe “God is on Our Side” so we can do whatever we want and claim we are doing it in God’s name. Perverting justice, hating Jews, Muslims, people of color, LGBTQ+, Asians, etc because they are different than the ‘good white people’ is an abomination.

We are seeing an old phenomena play out as well. The minorities are going against one another because of prejudice, because of ideology of the far left. We can see the far right and the far left come together to hate Jews, to hate people who believe in the Justice system, people who pray with open hearts and our worship bring us to having more compassion. Herein lies the problem; when one is at an extreme, they have more in common with people at the other extreme than they do with everyone else. Hence the Settlers and Hamas can tout the same solutions; kill them all! The authoritarian and the far left progressive both believe the masses are too stupid, uninformed, unaware to have power, they need to control the narrative and the country. Our founding fathers saw this danger and separated church and state while the ‘strict constitutionalists’ of today are trying to make this a ‘Christian Nation’.

To combine prayer and prejudice, to judge in advance and without actual knowledge, goes against everything the Bible stands for and says. It was not the Egyptian people that were ‘hated’, it was the actions of the Pharaoh and those that went along with it. We are told not to hate the Egyptians because they took us in when we needed help! We are told to not hate people in our heats, to love our neighbor as we love ourselves, to help our enemies ass if he has fallen, etc. There is no room for being judgmental in the Bible, there is no call to hatred in the Bible, not even towards Amalek! Yet we see over and over again people of all faiths, people of all ideologies have prejudices in their hearts and hatred/discrimination in their actions.

Religion, education has been hijacked by prejudicial people for a long time. The history books are written by the winners, except for the Bible. The Bible was ‘written’ by the losers, the Jews! In it, we are given ways of being that promote living together with people of different beliefs, different ideas. We are given paths to build bridges on so we can speak with one another and find solutions for making our world a little better each day and honoring the dignity, the contribution of everyone to this goal. Anything less is an abomination, anything contrary is a “trampling of My courts”, a “vain offering” and “an iniquity”. Isn’t it time for all of us to use prayer and worship to look inside and heal our resentments and prejudices so we can pray and worship with a whole heart?

I am moved by these words of Rabbi Heschel. I continue to look inside myself, especially as we get closer to Passover because prejudice, hatred are the two most insidious of narrow places, the Egypts that sneak up on me and most of us. I continue to experience reactions to what is happening in the world and in my life, and, through prayer, study and meditation, I continually let go of the knee-jerk reactions I have so I can respond with kindness, love, and passion. Having asked God to get me out of jams for 20+years from my teens till my recovery, I am acutely aware of how prayer can be an abomination and I work diligently each day to not make this error again. On Passover we are given an extra boost to leave this narrow and hateful place, we are once again called upon to leave Egypt. I have been privileged to be part of the 20% that left Egypt since 1987 and I will continue my journey to freedom this year. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 177

“In referring to the Negro in this paper we must, of course, always keep equally in mind the plight of all individuals belonging to a racial, religious, ethnic, or cultural minority.”(Insecurity of Freedom pg.87)

Racism, being a “cancer of the soul”, affects those who are infected, those who are diseased in every aspect of their dealing with and treatment of people who are ‘not like me’. While the conference dealt with racism against Black people, Rabbi Heschel reminds us that it is not only “the Negro” who is being being held down, it is all people who belong to a “minority”. We seem to have forgotten this truth, we seem to have become so interested in “identity politics” that even the different minorities have become ‘racist’ against another “minority”!

This “cancer of the soul” is so insidious and subtle that, like many cancers, it goes undetected for years, people are in denial of it. Just as people who are abused often abuse another, people who have been subjected to racism by another many times feel it is ‘their time’ to have power and to ‘get even’ with those who harmed them. This just continues the cycle of racism, hatred, poison, “cancer of the soul” that fuels hatred, misogyny, racism, religious bigotry that has existed for the millennia.

Just as in Egypt, just like Pharaoh, the authors of any time of racism, religious bigotry, ethnic hatred, etc seek to infuse the everyday people with lies, with fear over ‘those people”. They want to “deal slyly” with the ‘troublemakers’ who demand freedom, equality, equity, inclusion. “Who are you to want a seat at the table”, they ask within themselves and, their fear of losing power causes them to make up stories that paint ‘those people’ as enemies of the state, enemies of ‘freedom’, haters of ‘democracy’. Pharaoh and all of his disciples throughout the centuries all “accuse someone else of that which they are guilty of” and we, the people, lap it up.

“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere” is a quote from Rev. Martin Luther King and I am using it here to validate the quote above. We, the people have to come out from under our rocks, we, the people have to take the blinders of  racism, bigotry, prejudice that we have used to not see what is, not see how we have contributed to the hatred and fear that grips us today, as it has in the past.

Be it Richard Spencer or the person next door who has taken the waving of the American Flag to mean ‘return to white rule’, ‘keep them foreigners out’, or other such bullshit, both are dangerous to democracy, both are disciples of Pharaoh and the Egyptians who did Pharaoh’s bidding. They are the ‘want to be’ taskmasters, they are the people who have drank the Kool-Aid of hating people ‘different than us’. They have bought into the lies that if someone is of a different color, different ethnicity, different religious tradition, they are a threat. Like fish on who take the bait, many people across the globe have bought into these lies hook, line, and sinker.

Rabbi Heschel’s quote above is also a call to those of us who have suffered from any type of prejudice-“what is hateful to you, do not do to another”. Hillel the Elder says this, according to the Talmud, and it has been called the “Jewish Golden Rule”. Yet, we see today how the far left progressives have joined the far right white supremacists in anti-semitic rhetoric and actions. We are witnessing today how blacks and hispanics mistreat one another, we experience how the terrorists of Hamas are celebrated by the progressives and even by Black Clergy who call for a Cease-fire without the hostages being returned, with no guarantees that Hamas will not rule in Gaza, with no agreement that Oct. 7th will not happen again! “Oh the poor terrorists need to be coddled” is what they are saying. The same people who sought and got the help of the Jews during the Civil Rights movement, the same people who have had Jewish support for every movement against prejudice, have abandoned these principles - how sad. Israel is not perfect, just as the Jews who left Egypt were not perfect. The Bible is a story of imperfection, all of the heroes have flaws, the killing of the 1st born is horrific, yet, it is a story of evolution from fratricide to communal living. It is a story of freedom throughout the land, it is a story of welcoming the stranger and caring for one another, ransoming the captive, etc.

As Passover approaches, it is crucial to see how instead of ransoming the captive, we are the captive, we are holding ourselves and ‘those people’ captive to old ideas of hatred, racism, religious bigotry, etc. When “ethnic cleansing” is a term that is still being used, we are deep into the very problem the Conference on Race and Religion was held to solve. We, the people, have to turn into our souls, take stock of our inner prejudices and hatreds, wounds and hurts which feed/create these prejudices and hates, and realize how narrow our lives are because of them, how enslaved we are by them and become sick over our actions because of them. Then, we are ready to be liberated this Passover, then we can begin to end the racism, prejudice, Islamaphobia, anti-semitism, anti-gay, anti-women that is plaguing our lives and our world.

Each year, I leave my narrow places a little more and this year, I know I am freer than I have ever been. I am unafraid of my errors, I do not allow them to define me, I have no resentments nor hatreds towards people who have harmed me, I reach out for reconciliation and accept when people respond negatively and/or positively. Lets all leave Egypt this year! God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 176

“What begins as inequality of some inevitably ends as inequality of all.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg. 87)

Continuing the paragraph from yesterday, I am struck with the simple wisdom of the sentence above and our inability to grasp it, understand it, and acknowledge it. In our self-deceptive, ‘reptile’ minds we see unable to learn from history, learn from the Bible, learn from the experience of our ancestors and see what has happened and is happening in our time.

While the Biblical command is to “have dominion and rule” it was speaking of our ability to control animals, grow plants, etc - not have dominion and rule over another human being, another ethnicity, another color, creed, etc. Yet, we have coveted power and prestige by constantly and consistently seeking a person, a group of people to rule! It is a travesty of humanity to continue to bastardize the human spirit, defy the divinity all of us are created in, by using laws and customs to make separate rules for ‘the chosen’ and ‘those’ people.

The Bible tells us that “there shall be one law for the citizen and the stranger alike”, yet we seem unable to fulfill this command. Throughout history countries, governments, individuals have sought to scapegoat an individual and a group for their selfish needs. The prophets railed against this way of being and were ignored. All great civilizations, at one time or another, had laws for the ruling class, laws for the ‘peasant class’ and laws for the Jews. All have used the Jews as the focal point of inequality so they didn’t ‘taint the blood’ with ‘those vermin’ of the Aryans, of the Greeks, etc. All of the world has, at one time or another, had laws barring Jews from owning land, going to university, being counted, etc.

In all of these countries, the ‘peasant’ class who reviled the Jews and cheered at their being embarrassed and harassed, had the same inequality visited upon them and they were surprised each time. The ‘ruling class’ members became subject to losing their status at any time the people at the top decided to grab more power, more business’, or these people fell out of favor with the ‘boss’. Today’s autocrats learned their ruling structure from history-keep the masses down by giving them a common enemy, while setting it up for them to suffer as well, picking their pockets, wrapping them in chains and punishing anyone who doesn’t go along with ‘the program’.

America, the “land of the free and the home of the brave”, has a terrible track record of ignoring the truth of Rabbi Heschel’s teaching above. Be it the Chinese immigrants who built our railroads and were discriminated against, the German Jews who came here, the Italian, the Irish, the Eastern European Jews, the Iranian refugees, people from Mexico and Central America, etc; all were treated with disdain, mistrust, and inequality in their beginnings here in America, and then did the same to the next group of immigrants! Of course, seeing Blacks being treated different than whites in “the land of the free” was de rigueur, so commonplace people didn’t even take note.

We are witnesses and victims to the effects of the “inequality to some” that is beginning to be “inequality to all”. The Tax system in the US favors the rich, there is no such thing as everyone paying their “fair share”, when the people who make money from hedge funds, etc get the tax breaks, the corporations are treated as people and are too fragile to pay their fair share while they gouge the poor. Small business are being gobbled up and going out of business because of the Amazons, Home Depots, and other large chains that seek to monopolize the marketplace with a little help from their friends in government, etc. Our legal system has been at least two-tiered for a long time. Black and Brown, poor and immigrant people have been served one type of justice while white, rich people get another type of justice. Donald Trump is a perfect example. Whether one is a democrat or republican, for or against Trump-seeing him delay, disrespect, and denigrate our legal system is hurting us greatly. His belief that he is above the law, that he can do anything he wants to, goes back to a time way before he was President. He has always believed “some animals are more equal than others”.(Animal Farm)

Israel is treated with “inequality” as well. The same countries calling for restraint didn’t show it when the Santa Ana went to war with Texas, when Germany bombed London, when Japan bombed Pearl Harbor, etc.  Yet, the Jews should show restraint because, “well, they aren’t like us” so even in Global politics, Israel is called out for the humanitarian crisis caused by Hamas while Iran is the chair of the human rights commission-while they kill women for not wearing the ‘proper’ dress code! Do the countries that make up the UN really believe they will not suffer the same fate, the same condemnations as Israel when Russia gets desperate?

I have been a victim of anti-semitism, of discrimination because of my criminal past, because of my alcoholic past. I have watched how the “inequality” that was shown to Black people in my youth was hoisted upon me when I marched for Civil Rights, when I marched against the Vietnam War. I am a student of history and I know ‘in my bones’ that we have to end our need to have a scapegoat, we have to see one another as equals in the eyes of the universe and our differences make our world more complete and robust. Isn’t it time we all “just got along” and “rejoice in our portion” rather than be envious and power hungry? God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 175

How many disasters do we have to go through in order to realize that all of humanity has a stake in the liberty of one person; whenever one person is offended, we are all hurt.” (Insecurity of Freedom pg.87)

The question Rabbi Heschel asks above is as timely now as when he asked it in 1963. Some 61 years later the actions of humanity seem to be saying-we need more disasters in order to realize the truth of Rabbi Heschel’s question. This question, of course, has been asked by philosophers, people of faith throughout the millennia, it is asked many times in the Bible through the stories of humanity’s lack of awareness.

The question is not, in my understanding of it today, is not about offending another person’s ‘feelings’, nor is it about the way humanity has made their needs uber alles. The call of this question is what will it take for us to put into action the Biblical command to “proclaim liberty throughout the land and to all its inhabitants therein” (Lev. 25:10). Each person has a right to be free, each of us has a stake in the freedom of one another. Yet, we seem to be unable to grasp this concept, we seem to be unable to get over our individual hurts and desires, our individual narcissism to make this Biblical command/dream a reality.

Passover is coming, we once again have to look inside of ourselves and determine the Egypt, the narrow places we are stuck in. While some people of faith will say the disasters are from God because we are not being fundamentalists, some people will say this is just the nature of things, others will point to ‘those’ people as the cause, the truth is most of the disasters are human-made. It is we, the people, causing these disasters and it is we, the people, who are too stubborn and/or thick-headed to realize this truth and repair the damage we have wrought. It is we, the people, who have grown so ‘fat’ we are unable to see the repairs we need to make to our souls so they can flourish and fix our corner of the world.

Humanity has been unable to stay loyal to the principle of seeing the divinity in each human being, in honoring the inherent dignity and value of each individual person. This is stage 3 of Kohlberg’s 6 stages of Moral Development which he determined happens between the ages of 8-13! We have not left adolescence in our treatment of one another, we have not left Egypt in our treatment of ourselves-how sad and how destructive for ourselves and for all of humanity.

Iran attacks Israel, Hamas terrorizes Israel and is still holding hostages both alive and dead, and Israel is called upon to exercise restraint. Is humanity still so blinded by their own self-interest, by their own blatant and latent anti-semitism that the ‘squad’ and their cohorts believe Israel should not exist? How many more times do Jews need to be threatened with extinction because of our faith? How many more Oct.7th’s does the world need to have happen before they realize the terrorist attacks by Hamas, Iran, their proxies deny the liberty and freedom of Jews which, in turn, denies the liberty and freedom of all? How many more condemnations does Israel need to realize this truth and help to bring about a 2-state solution?

How many more disasters do we here in the United States need to suffer before we realize that politics has no place in our legal system? Ideology, faith are not conducive to a just society, we are told in Deuteronomy that judges have to not take bribes, not allow their ideology to blind them to what is “righteous justice” which we all have to pursue. How many more disasters like the border crisis, the killing of people of color by Police, the calling for killing of political ‘enemies’, the demonstrations against Jews and the memes about George Soros and other Jews proclaiming our ‘control’ of the banking, entertainment, news organizations? How many more lies and deceptions do we have to perpetrate before we “realize that all humanity has a stake in the liberty of one person”?

In one week, people will be waking up from their Seders, some going to Temple, others going to work. The purpose of the Seder, of Passover is to “realize that all humanity has a stake in the liberty of one person”, that everyone who is gathered at Seders across the globe need one another to leave Egypt. The Seder gives us the opportunity to talk about our hungers and the hungers of people from all walks of life for freedom, it gives the opportunity to discuss how we can fulfill the needs of the needy. The Seder is a place to speak about our own needs to leave the Egypts we finally are able to admit to, the narrow places that family, friends, society has imposed upon us that are killing our spirits rather than uplifting them. It is the place to put on Orange on the Seder Plate, to discuss ways to help those who are still enslaved by power-mad authoritarians. It is the place to commit to being like Moses and tell Pharaoh-Let My People Go! It is the time for all of us to realize when one of us is offended, we are all hurt; when one person is enslaved, none of us are free.

Each year, at the Seders I led, we would write down the Egypt, the narrow place we committed to leave this Passover. Then I would collect these pieces of paper and burn them as our Passover Sacrifice, giving these enslavements wings to leave us and allowing all of us to see the burnt ashes these Egypts were reduced to. In this way, we were less afraid to leave them, because we ‘knew’ they were deceptions and lies we told ourselves we couldn’t leave, live without. I am aware that false ego is still a place I need to leave and, as I have in the past-I will leave it a little more this year. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 174

“The redeeming quality of man lies in his ability to sense his kinship with all men. Yet there is a deadly poison that inflames the eye, making us see the generality of race but now the uniqueness of the human face.”(Essential Writings pg. 67)

These words both spoken and written in January of 1963 are as timely today as they were then. Everyone can sense one’s “kinship with all” humanity, we know we have more in common than we are different. Most of us know the pain of losing a parent, a friend, a lover; most of us know the joy of family, learning, exploring with another human being. We recognize our similar traits to love, to care, to be just, to love mercy, to speak and hear truth. We all want to live in some comfort, we all want food, clothing, shelter, a respect of our dignity and to be treated equal. We all want to experience freedom and have limits put upon us. This “ability to sense” our “kinship with” all humanity is what “buys back” our humanity after we have fallen into the slavery of willful blindness, the narrow place of an “eye disease”.

The second sentence above, of course, is what we have to be redeemed from! We are in desperate need, again, of a Moses to “tell old Pharaoh, let My people go”. The issue here is that we, ourselves, are the Pharaoh, it is us who are infected with “a deadly poison that inflames the eye”. While we are hearing from politicians and pundits, Imams and Priests, Ministers and Rabbis that someone else is the ‘devil’, the ‘satan’, the ‘pharaoh’, etc - the truth is we are the people with the disease and the people with the cure. And, we are, seemingly,  incapable of hearing this truth and holding onto this truth long enough to change. We are bombarded by these so-called ‘holy people’, these ‘people who know something’ to believe the lies that this “deadly poison” is actually good for us. “Here drink this and you will see things clearly, follow me and I will show you the real and lead you to the promised land” are the messages of the charlatans, the racists, the Mengele’s who want to experiment on people to see what it takes to control them and make them into robots, people who will relinquish their minds and their souls for us.

Be it Bannon or Putin, Xi or the Ayatollah, the fundamentalist Jews or Arabs, the Christian Nationalists or the far left progressives, all of these groups are suffering from the “deadly poison that inflames the eye”. When anyone is on the extremes, when fundamentalism is the call and return, we are unable to “sense his kinship with” all humanity. When men are so afraid of women they have to make laws that take away freedom, take away their ability to choose, return to a way of being that makes them into chattel and slaves who have to ‘listen to your man, woman’; these men are infected, these men are poisoned, and, they believe they are seeing clearly! This is how insidious and deadly this poison, this “eye disease” is.

While Rabbi Heschel was speaking about the plight of the Black people, he also could have been speaking about the irrational, ridiculous hatred of the Jew, mistrust of the Muslim. The poison is the same, the inflammation is the same and the spreading of the disease through words, through actions is the same. Be it Ben-Gvir or Sinwar, they both use the same delivery system of their poison-hatred, lies, violence. Putin, Orban, Trump, RFK Jr., all use this same delivery system of their poison, they use the same poison that has been used throughout the millennia and we, the people, are infected unwittingly and willingly.

The first sentence above, of course, is the vaccine, it is the cure for this eye disease which is a “deadly poison”. We have to hear the call of Moses to Pharaoh “Let My people go”, as a call from a higher source to return. We have to allow our spiritual life to redeem, to buy back, our minds and emotions which have been injected with the lies and hatred of power-hungry puppet masters who fancy themselves Pharaohs. They believe they are the ones who should rule, they believe they are the ‘second coming’, they believe they are the ‘ones who will bring the messiah’ by enslaving everyone else to do their bidding, to hate one another and to kill the true prophets who speak out against them. With Passover a week away, it is important to look inside of ourselves and see where this “deadly poison that inflames the eye” is blocking our ability to see and hear truth. How and when are we insensitive to our “kinship with all” humanity? What is the delivery system of the vaccine that will allow us to be part of the people who truly leave Egypt, leave our narrow places, leave the constriction of our souls this year?

I believe the universe knows our susceptibility to poison, to lies, to wanting the warmth of slavery, the certainty of slavery so each year we proclaim our willingness to enter slavery and our hunger to be free. We relive the errors of the Israelites and the joys of the multitude of slaves who left Egypt and made their way to Canaan. We are told “every human being has to see him/herself as if they too left Egypt”. This verse puts an obligation upon us to burn the slavery we want to leave in the burning the Chometz ceremony prior to the Seder, it allows us the opportunity to share what ‘Egypt’ we want to leave this year and ask for help from our fellow newly freed slaves. I have done this for the past 36 years and each year I have been a little freer; each day I seek to find the beginning of the “deadly poison” and take the cure for the “eye disease” which we are all susceptible to. The vaccine is truth, study, song, chant, soulful living, hearing and answering the call of help and service that rings continually, love, compassion, righteous justice, and acts of lovingkindness. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 173

“To think of a man in terms of white, black, or yellow is more than an error. It is an eye disease, a cancer of the soul.” (Essential Writings pg. 66)

Iran has attacked Israel with over 300 rockets and drones. It is the first time these attacks have come directly from Iran and Israel must respond to this attack on their sovereignty! Just as Hamas, an Iranian proxy attacked Israel’s sovereignty, so has Iran. While the world urges restraint to Israel, none of the world would restrain themselves if they were attacked in such a manner. While Rabbi Heschel’s quote above was written and spoken in regard to racism in America some 61 years ago, it holds true for anti-semitism as well. Humanity seems unable to absorb that we all come from Adam, as I wrote about on Friday. We seem unable to absorb that each of us is unique and all spiritual and faith traditions are paths to enhance our spirits and our growing into being human a little more each day.

When people deny the sovereignty of Israel, when they deny the right to be Jewish, when they discriminate and engage in senseless hatred because “Jews will not replace us”, they are suffering from the same “eye disease” as racism. In fact, religious discrimination is the same as racism and both are “a cancer of the soul”. Yet, unlike cancer of the body, “cancer of the soul” is a contagious disease just like pink eye and the world seems to relish in this “cancer of the soul” and has had no desire to cure it for the millennia!

While people will speak of this attack, as they have of the attack on Oct. 7th, in political terms, in geopolitical terms, both attacks have one aim-Extermination of Jews. This is the stated goal of Hamas, Hezbollah, Houthis, and, of course, Iran. Rather than see the similarities of Jews and Muslims, of Muslims and Christians, of all faith traditions, Iran and radical Islam, like the Christian Nationalists, both the far left and right movements across the globe are afraid of both our similarities and differences. This fear stems from their fear of losing power, their fear of not being in control, their fear of imperfection and uncertainty. Our irrational fears, our fears of ‘not being in charge of another’ are what cause and spread “a cancer of the soul”, they are what cause us to have “an eye disease”. Hence the only cure for both of these life-threatening diseases is to see one another in terms of equality, sovereignty; all of us have infinite value and dignity, all of us are “kin under the skin”, all of us are responsible to erase the imaginary and deceitful margins we have made regarding someone other than ‘our kind’.

There is only one race of people- the human race. There are many different expressions of how to be human, there are many different faiths to follow, spiritual traditions one can adhere to, and, at their core and the foundation of all,  lead us on the road of curing our “eye disease”, our “cancer of the soul”. Dividing humanity according to race and religion is man-made, it is a denial of the core beliefs and tenets of spirituality and religion-we are One human race, we are One with the force of the Cosmos, we all left Egypt to worship our higher power, our higher consciousness together. We all wander through the desert growing in spirit, in consciousness in order to come together and aid one another, not be in ridiculous competition with one another for power, prestige, wealth, etc. When “driving while black” is a crime, when wearing a Yamulke is reason to attack, when we are forget the similarities between a Taqiyah and a Yarmulke, we are suffering from an “eye disease, a cancer of the soul”.

It is time for us to end our incessant need for control and power through prejudice and religious bigotry. It is time for the world to stand up to the fundamentalists in all faiths and political parties. It is time for We, the People, to once again exert our healing powers and cure the “eye disease, the cancer of the soul” that we have been suffering from for so long. It is time for us to live the spiritual principles of whatever faith tradition we adhere to, it is time for us to throw out the “money-changers” in the Temples, the Mosques, the Churches, the Congress, the Legislatures, in every country in the world and replace them with people of integrity, people of faith, people who can see and judge people, not by the color of their skin nor the religion, spirituality they practice, “but by the content of their character.”

This will take a deep cleansing of our souls, an abdication of our diseased minds and a healing of our soul sickness’. It is the clarion call of Ramadan, of Easter, of Passover: LET MY PEOPLE GO! We, the people have to let ourselves be healed and the eye diseases and cancers of our souls be banished. The cure is in a daily ‘routine’ of self-reflection, healing of our wounds, looking to help another, living our authentic soul’s script and holding our heads up and seeing one another “face to face”-then we see God’s Image, we see the likeness of ourselves in one another and we no longer have to hate, we no longer need our prejudices, we can fulfill the command: “love your neighbor because you love yourself”.

Each day, I seek to cure my own “eye disease, cancer of the soul”. I do not need a “bad guy” to blame, I don’t need to hate anyone-full stop- and I celebrate the differences and similarities of another human being. I am passionately engaged in living and, like the prophet, I am sensitive to deceit and search out my own self-deceptions daily. I pray you will find your own practice, I am confident that everyone can cure their own “eye disease” their particular form of “cancer of the soul” so we can fulfill the vision of the prophets-nation shall not lift up sword against nation, neither shall men learn war anymore. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 172

“The Bible does not say, God created the plant or the animal; it says God created different kinds of plants,… In striking contrast it does not say, God created different kinds of man, men of different colors and races, it proclaims, God created one single man. From one single man all men are descended.” (Essential Writings pg. 66)

Ramadan is over, Easter has passed, and Passover is upcoming. All three Western Religious and Spiritual disciplines have, at this time of spring and rejuvenation, ceremonies, rites, holy days which embody liberation of the soul, spiritual renewal, and the journey to freedom. Yet, how can we engage in any of these with our bigotries and hatreds, our competitions and separations of human beings by highlighting our differences of color, of race, of religion? I believe it is impossible.

As Rabbi Heschel reminds us, we are all descended, according to the Bible, from the first man, Adam-“male and female He created them both” (Genesis 1:27). It also states that Adam was created “in the Image of God”(ibid). Given this, it is impossible for people of faith, people who claim to worship God, to separate themselves according to race, color, religion. Yet, we do!! How sad, how destructive, how ignorant.

While learning of the different species of plants and animals is necessary so we can ensure we are growing the ‘right’ plants in the right climate, we can make sure that we keep animals in climates and habitats that are in accordance with their needs, it is a desecration of God’s name, it goes against our higher consciousness to separate humans according to their races, their colors, their religions. It is an insidious form of slavery, it is an Egypt that we have not been able to leave and the perpetrators of this way of being are the Pharaoh’s of modernity.

We are 10 days from celebrating Passover, extolling the miracle of leaving Egypt, leaving the harsh labor of slavery, the burdens of our inner slavery. And we are far from free, hence this is called the ‘time of our liberation’. The promise that slavery will end is one that has yet to be realized, not because it is not ordained, not because the opportunities have not presented themselves, rather because humanity has not availed itself of these opportunities. Humanity has chosen to stay stuck in the burdens of our inner slaveries and continue to separate ‘according to our own kind’.

Rather than immerse ourselves in Rabbi Heschel’s repetition of the words of Genesis, much of humanity has bastardized these words and used them as weapons against people of color, people of different races, people of different religions, different sexual orientations, different genders! Instead of discerning the difference between different plants, different animals, and being descended from a single human being, some of the so-called ‘religious’ people have equated not mixing the races, not mixing religions, not mixing colors as ‘godly and holy’ with plants and animals. These same people, of course, will gleefully mix seeds to create new fruits, veggies, etc and not see their incongruent ways.

It is way past time for humanity to catch up with ancient wisdom, we are on the brink of losing our humanity, our sense of what it means to be human. Bi-racial, interfaith, LGBTQ+, women’s rights are all ways of celebrating the differences of each human being, ways to acknowledge that we are all descendants of Adam, we are all struggling to come out of hiding, we are more similar than different and we all belong. Islam, Christianity, Judaism all celebrate the human being, all confer upon humanness the ability to act Godlike, to live from our higher consciousness, to, in the words of Rodney King, “all just get along”.

The separations of human beings is man-made, the enslavement of women, of people of color, of Jews, Muslims, Christians, is man-made, hence we can change these ways of being, we can undo what we is man-made and use our higher consciousness and the spirit of the universe to make the promises of Easter, Ramadan, Passover into realities. Not as a parochial hierarchy, not as a ‘holier than thou’, not as ‘my religion, race, color is the best one and I should rule over you’; rather as ways of inviting “all who are hungry come and eat” and “all who are need partake in the Passover”. Remember, more than just Israelites left Egypt once the gates were opened by Pharaoh, and more than just Jews can leave at least one of our inner slaveries this Passover. It will take a concerted effort to come together to leave our current day Egypts, our current narrow places of mean-spiritedness, our current desires and acting like Pharaoh, because we erroneously believe ‘god talks to me alone’.

I grew up knowing people of different colors, races, religions were no better nor worse than me. I know this and have practiced this way of being in my recovery more and more each day. I also have a problem when people who are addicts/alcoholics believe they are different from ‘normies’, that only another addict can understand them. Every human being suffers from some form of spiritual, emotional pain and we all are in need of liberation of our souls, liberation from the harshness with which we treat ourselves and/or another human being. We are all in need of crossing the Red Sea that is the boundary line between liberation and slavery. Each Passover, I get to leave some inner bondage and walk through the desert, knowing I will not reach the “promised land” and I will be less prone to focus on differences and more attune to our similarities. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 171

“Racial or religious bigotry must be recognized for what it is: satanism, blasphemy.” (Essential Writings pg. 66)

Immersing ourselves in Rabbi Heschel’s thought above causes us to become aware, to recognize, of our “racial or religious bigotry”. Yesterday’s writing was about “religious bigotry” and today’s is about “racial bigotry”. What brings us to such fear, loathing, hatred of a person whose skin color is different than ours, whose ancestry is different than ours? It is an irrational fear, despicable hatred, which Rabbi Heschel defines as “satanism, blasphemy”. Both of his words describe ways of being that are profane, that are obscene and negate the dignity and worth of another human being based on our own prejudices. This denial of the dignity of another human being based on the person having a different culture, a different skin tone, in fact any difference we can see. While people of color are the easiest to spot as ‘different’, Italians, Irish, Asian, Jews have all be subjected to “racial bigotry” in the United States.

Our denial of the dignity of another person based on culture, on skin color is another power grab by the group promoting and engaging in this behavior. “Blasphemy” is defined as profane which is defined as “treating a person with disrespect/obscene. The Hebrew words for profane are “desecration of holiness”. Denying the dignity of another person because of their ancestry, their cultural heritage, their skin color desecrates the human spirit, our higher consciousness, and is a decision that says ‘he/she is not a member of the human race’! We have engaged in these behaviors for so long, society has become blind to our bigotry, we fail to recognize the bigotry of another, of ourselves, of our laws, and customs.

Two weeks from now, we will be celebrating the Exodus from Egypt and the crossing of the Red Sea. Pharaoh was unable to see the Jews and the other slaves as people, as having dignity and worth and he convinced the slave class that they were unworthy. It took a leader to remind the Israelites and other slaves that they had value, they have dignity and no person should deny this truth nor subjugate another person to their whims and their “harsh labor”. Yet, according to one Midrash, only 20% of the slaves left Egypt! This is how devastating “racial bigotry” is, it sucks the dignity out of another person and we fail to recognize our own intrinsic value.

The same techniques have been used for the millennia, be it against Blacks, Hispanics, Native American Indians, Jews, Muslims. As Hitler and Henry Ford proved, repeating a lie long enough and loud enough will make otherwise good people into bigots and they will join in acts of bigotry, of profanation towards “those people”. We see it happening today as it has throughout the history of the United States, there are those of us who thought the gains of the Civil Rights Movement were carved in stone, only to find out the backlash was so great that even the Supreme Court of the United States has imbued bigotry with the power of the Federal Government!

Lyndon Johnson said: “If you can convince the lowest white man he’s better than the best colored man, he won’t notice you’re picking his pocket. Hell, give him somebody to look down on, and he’ll empty his pockets for you.”  How unbelievably true, how devastatingly sad and how destructive this truth is to the fabric of society and the inner life of the individual. What does it take to “recognize” our bigotry, our prejudices? It takes an honest look in the mirror, it takes an “fearless and thorough inventory” of our willful blindness and our hiding from ourselves. It takes a true connection to our Higher Consciousness, God, our souls that will not allow us to engage in self-deception and calls upon us to end our indifference to our own bigotry. We have to end our incessant need to believe the deceptions of another who is just “picking our pockets”, we have to let go of our worshiping at the altar of ‘satan’, of prejudice and stop needing “someone to look down on”. We have to recognize the inherent value of the person next to us, the dignity of the people who are against us, the right to freedom and free will choices of the people we have relegated to being beneath us, to being our ‘slaves’. We are able to rise above our worst natures, our strongest fears of being ‘less than’. We do this by our connection to our inner life and our connection to the universal energy that is all around us. We do this by seeing how similar we are to one another in our hopes, dreams, fears. We do this by not “judging a book by its cover” anymore and having a cup of coffee, sharing our stories and their stories with another human being.

I have fought against my own inner bigotry for as long as I can remember. I have been subjected to bigotry because of being a Jew. I have experienced bigotry because I am a recovering alcoholic. I have experienced bigotry because, as my father and grandfathers taught me, I see each person as a human being and don’t judge based on color, creed, ancestry, etc. I was shunned by ‘white people’ because I had friends who were people of color, I was mistrusted in prison because I would hang out with and help people of color, I have been pigeoned holed as a “niche Rabbi” because of my work at Beit T’Shuvah, I have been ignored because “who else would have ever hired him”. I understand bigotry viscerally AND my experiences give me the power to have compassion without believing my experiences match those of people of color-I don’t know how they feel, I don’t get pulled over because I am “driving while black”. I do know ridding myself of bigotry is a daily task, it is insidious and we all need to recognize it quickly and overcome this learned tendency and return to our natural desire to connect. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 170

“Racial or religious bigotry must be recognized for what it is: satanism, blasphemy.” (Essential Writings pg. 66)

We are and, seemingly, always been confronted with the issue of “racial or religious bigotry”. It is an issue that plagues humanity and continues to live in the inner core of most people’s lives. “Bigotry” is defined as “stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief, or opinion that differs from one's own.” Since our need to be right, our need for certainty seems all-consuming, we become intolerant of anyone and anything that does not fit into our view of the world, of how life should be, etc.

Our fear of not being right, our fear of uncertainty causes us to be afraid of people who ‘are not like us’, who are not ‘our tribe’. Our need to “have rule and dominion” has exceeded the call in Genesis Chapter 1 which tells us to have both over the earth and the other animals. We have extended this call to humankind who are ‘not like us’. Our “stubborn and complete intolerance” of feeling ‘less than’, of ‘not being in charge’ has birthed our “racial” and “religious” bigotry and, as we can see from history, these bigotries have not made our lives any better, in fact, I would posit they make our lives much worse.

Our drive to bigotry has led to, and continues to lead to, the dumbing down of humankind. We lost many works of art and many artists because of the Church’s need to dominate, because of the Rabbis fear of ‘being like those christians’, because of discrimination against women and their artistry. We lost untold numbers of symphonies, of music that was defiant and called for change during the middle ages because of the domination of the church and their doctrines. Remember Galileo was imprisoned because he went against Church doctrine saying the Earth revolved around the Sun and this was considered heresy! Jews were put into ghettos, relegated to being ‘money-changers’ because the Church was afraid of and practiced religious bigotry against Jesus’ own people! They were afraid of and hated Muslims, remember the Crusades. The Roman Catholic Church did not admit its responsibility in spreading anti-semitism until 1965 and did not make amends till Pope John Paul II in 2000!

Muslims were such a majority that they had their own countries and, for a long period, welcomed Jews and gave religious freedom to Jews. Maimonidies was physician to the Grand Vizor of Egypt. Yet, this too came to an end when the British promoted anti-semitism within the Arab population of what was then called Palestine. We see the expansion of religious bigotry in both the ultra-religious Jews and radical Islamic Arabs in the region and how ugly, how destructive our “stubborn and complete intolerance” is!

We have within us a drive to get along, a drive to connect as well. Yet, this learned bigotry seems to have become epigenetic, baked into our DNA handed down by parents to children, at least since at least the 4th Century until now. Rather than appreciating the different paths to the same ‘end’-wholeness and community, spirit and connection- we have become so parochial, so insular that we demean another religion, despise the people who practice differently than us even within the same religious tradition, and then wonder why so many people are leaving ‘organized’ religion. Unfortunately, religion seems to be organized around “religious bigotry” rather than covenantal love-not because of the foundational values of religion, but because people have promoted “intolerance of any belief that differs from their own”. History has taught us of the violence, the senseless hatred, the murders done in the name of “religious bigotry” and we are witnessing the same right this moment.

There is a solution, however. There is a path of change. Tolerance, learning from one another, seeing our similarities and loving our differences. Letting go of our stubbornness and our need to be intolerant of anyone who is not like us and embracing the wisdom and wonder of the religious tenets of all faiths. Recognizing, as the Dalai Lama taught me, “all faiths, all spiritual traditions have at their core: love, kindness, truth, compassion, grace.” Understanding and appreciating the different languages and paths to achieve these core ways of being is crucial because humanity is not a “one-size fits all”. We are not the same, we are not “Stepford Wives”, we are not able to understand the same words in the same ways. In Proverbs it says we “should teach each child according to their understanding”. It doesn’t say teach everyone to be the same, it doesn’t say to teach in the ways we want to. This ancient wisdom foresaw the issue of “religious bigotry” before it became so big as to encompass the world and had an antidote. We can and must follow it!

I have been attacked verbally and physically because I am a Jew. I am watching the world attack Israel because of the propaganda of Hamas and the “religious bigotry” that still is alive and well today. “Jews will not replace us” rings in my ears as I listen to Trump and the Republican Party hustle “God Bless America Bibles” and bastardize the teachings of Jesus. The Cease-fire that was in place on Oct. 6, 2024 was not broken by Israel and people seem to conveniently forget this, the ultra-religious settlers and their supporters in the Government of Israel promote “intolerance” against the Arabs of Gaza and the West Bank. All of this is wrong, all of this is caused by senseless hatred and ends up in the killing of innocents. We, the people, can only end this war in the Middle East, the rise of authoritarianism by ending our own intolerance and stubborn need to be right. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark

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Year 3 Day 169

““Race prejudice, a universal human ailment, is the most recalcitrant aspect of the evil in man” (Reinhold Niebuhr), a treacherous denial of the existence of God.” (Essential Writings pg. 66)

“Prejudice” comes from the Latin meaning “in advance judgement”. Reverend Niebuhr’s choice of this word speaks to our inability to be in the present, our inability to see what is in front of us. He is calling us out for our “advance judgement” of someone based on the color of their skin, the religion they practice, and/or the country they are from. He is also acknowledging how “universal” this “human ailment” is! Reverend Niebuhr’s description of “race prejudice” as “the most recalcitrant aspect of evil” should give us all pause, shake us to our core. “Recalcitrant” comes from the Latin meaning “kicking out with the heels” and is defined in English as “having an obstinately uncooperative attitude”. Both of these definitions perfectly describe the power of race prejudice and the seemingly endless ways people of faith see nothing wrong with it!

This “obstinately uncooperative attitude” is on full display across the world, it is happening every day here in America and across the globe. Unfortunately, more often than not, it is being stoked and energized by people ‘of faith’. It is, unfortunately, not limited to skin color; it has been enlarged to include people of different faiths-Jews, Muslims, Indians, Arabs, etc are now ‘races’ so we are subjected to the same prejudicial attitudes as Blacks and Hispanics. We even see the practice of racial prejudice between the groups that people of white European descent are prejudice against. The ‘minorities’ cannot see the value of joining together, they cannot see how they are doing to another what they hate being done to themselves! This is how “recalcitrant” “race prejudice” is. This describes in action what Reverend Niebuhr says above, it “is the most recalcitrant aspect of evil in man”.

We are witnesses to how “race prejudice” is poisoning our young, how it prevents us from celebrating people who accomplish or could accomplish life-saving miracles. We see how “race prejudice” has been used as a tool for authoritarians to gain power in countries across the globe for the millennia and how they have, eventually, destroyed these countries. We are in such a time right now. Be it Putin, who many right-wing ‘religious’ zealots and conservatives praise for protecting the ‘white race’, be it Orban who used Jews and immigrants to gain power and has taken control of government, business, etc, be it Trump and the MAGA crowd who call Blacks and Hispanics animals, who treat the stranger with suspicion rather than welcoming, who cry out “Jews will not replace us”, who placed a “Muslim Ban” in effect. All of these ‘good white people’ who follow and support these authoritarians, all of these  ‘good christian folk’ who worship at the feet of these liars and power-hungry “evil” men are also “recalcitrant” and obstinately defiant of facts, truth, kindness and the Bible they profess to follow.

Jews and Arabs at one another’s throat, is another example of “race prejudice” and, as we have seen, “a recalcitrant aspect of the evil in man.” Both groups have been taught of the wrongness, the evil, the fear, the need to throw them out of our country, from their youth. Yet, we are cousins, we are descendants of Abraham, we each have similar rituals and ways of living according to our different holy texts. Yet, because of ‘leaders’, because of the need for an outside enemy, both Jewish and Arab leaders have taught “race prejudice” to their people, both Jewish and Arab leaders have used “race prejudice” to keep the ‘war’ going since 1948! Hence we are where we are today-Gaza is decimated, the hostages are still in captivity, the leaders of both sides are more interested in their survival and ‘winning’ than in finding solutions. AND, all of this “evil” is supported by the religious zealots on both sides, all of this evil is promoted by these ‘holy people’!

In America, in Israel, it is the “religious”, the “zealots” on both ends of the spectrum that are promoting this “recalcitrant aspect of evil in man” for their own ends, for their own power. They are ‘relationship arsonists, they light a fire between people based on race, religion, gender and stand back in glee as the fire gets out of control. It is time for the rest of us to stand up and say NO! It is time for the majority of us to call a halt to “race prejudice”, to heal our own “recalcitrant aspect of evil”. It is time for the rest of us to follow the leaders who promote the truth of the Bible, the Koran, the New Testament, the Eastern Philosophies, and root out our own inner evil and heal our prejudices by seeing one another as all one race- the human race. It is time for us to end our incessant need to be in power, it is time for us to end our timeless tool of pitting one race/group against another for our power and control.

It is hard to remove our obstinate uncooperative attitudes. We are almost immune to them, living them without even realizing it. I was guilty of this when I would distinguish someone as a ‘goy’ or a ‘yid’, when I foolishly believed that ‘my people’ would never turn against me nor would I turn against them! I learned from my father and grandfathers to let go of these attitudes and they still rear their ugliness at times. When these thoughts come into my mind, I have to return to Reverend Niebuhr’s words and, because I have chipped away at the boulder that was on my shoulder, my mind, my heart, return to seeing everyone as a member of my race-the human race and act humanely towards them, letting go of the resentments that arise quickly and no longer drink the poison of “race prejudice”, hoping the other person will die! It is hard, I do this imperfectly, I still get angry in the face of “race prejudice”, in the aura of recalcitrance, and I do a little better each day. God Bless and stay safe, Rabbi Mark